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Sex in Africa 101 – MUST READ!

All right guys, over the next few weeks I will be giving my big breakdown on West Africa. Expect city guides from every country on the coast, stories, rankings and plenty of solid, sound advice.

West Africa is not for pussies, this is hardcore. Every country is completely different, but in general – bribery, corruption, violence, poverty and lack of infrastructure make this one of the hardest regions in the world to travel. I also strongly suggest you learn basic French before you embark. That said, it’s FUCKING FUN! You will never be bored…

In truth, the most dangerous thing about Africa is not war, corrupt officials or street crime – it’s the women!

Welcome to the developing world.

If you are considering travelling to sub-Saharan Africa, there are a few things you should know when it comes to sex…

  1. African women have the best bodies in the world.
    Period. That’s coming from a guy who’s been to over 80 countries and slept with women from over 50 countries. They have the slimmest waists, the highest hip to waist ratios, the best bust’n’booty proportions, extremely low upper arm circumference and superb jaw lines and cheek bones. You will easily encounter and mate with the sexiest women of your life on the continent. Furthermore, they know how to exploit their assets to the max!  African women are extremely confident – it’s sexy!
  2. Most sexual relationships in sub-Saharan African are transactional.
    Or at least it seems that way. Unfortunately, this is the rule rather than the exception. Getting sex for free is often a foreign concept for many African men. This sad truth is, at night it’s common to see men compete to pay for sex. This is normal. Remember, poverty is rife, and often this is the only way women can make money. In many cases, the woman in a transactional sexual relationship may remain faithful to her boyfriend, while he may have multiple sexual partners. In other cases, the woman may have multiple partners. It’s a little hard for the visitor to get their head around. The funny thing is, the fact that one doesn’t pay for sex is greeted with equal befuddlement by many women in Africa. This culture is well represented in the number 1 hit playing throughout the continent at the moment… Nwa baby (meaning prostitute). Catchy as hell!
  3. On average, 90% of the women you meet at night are prostitutes.
    Building on No.2, most of the girls you meet at night are pros and semi-pros (similar to parts of southeast Asia and Latin America). But don’t worry, this is not always the case. This percentage fluctuates depending on city and venue. You can meet plenty of “good” girls in Africa, but the harsh reality is the “good” girls are either old, too ugly to make money as prostitutes, super religious or rich (very rare). If you don’t pay for sex (like myself), often the only realistic option at night time is to shore. If you haven’t already, read my article shoring 101 before you continue. If you want to reduce drama, I suggest meeting girls during the day or online by pipelining.
  4. Be wary of one night stands.
    Sub-Saharan Africa is easily one the most promiscuous places on the planet; one night stands are  very common. But youhave been warned – just because a girl agrees to go home with you for free, it doesn’t always pan out the way you like it. Trust your gut.The majority of time you will have a wonderful experience, but pick the wrong chick and you’re in for a bad night. After sex she may demand money anyway; ask a large amount for ‘transport’ afterwards; rob you while you’re asleep; call for backup to rob you; tell you a sob story of her sick baby, hermam with no legs etc… It’s not often, but it happens. Don’t want it to happen to you? Follow these simple rules…
    Go to their place
    Not yours. This solves many problems. On my last trip this became a rule. At least then if there’s any trouble afterwards you can just leave (or in some cases escape in anti – style). Also she doesn’t know where you live! You are free to move on to the next girl without any repercussions, such as jealous psychos showing up at your door – a recipe for disaster. Alternatively, consider a rent-by-the-hour hotel… not very classy but sound logistically. WARNING: Always plan an escape route. Sometimes, “their place” can be a trap. I once had a girl lock me in a room, call up her crowbar-wielding friends and things got ugly.Travel light:
    Give everything you own to your mate. Cards, cash (apart from taxi fare), phone, jewelry – everything! They can’t rob you if you don’t have anything. I’m reminded of a funny story in Ghana where two girls brought me back to their place… but that’s for another day.

    Girl Proof :
    If you must bring a girl home, girl proof your room. Stash all your shit. Even better, if you’re with a friend, get him to actually remove everything from the room and let him care for your belongings for the night.

    The whole thing seems overly cautious, but better to be safe than sorry. As mentioned previously, most sexual interactions will be smooth and pleasurable, but 1 in 7 will end badly. Play it smart.

    5. HIV and AIDS

    Ok, so West African AIDs rates aren’t that high, but you will likely be sleeping with the virus’s core demographic. Further south, the rate climbs dramatically so make sure you educate yourself. I’ve slipped up a few times, but try and not to follow in my foot steps. My last trip I always wrapped up.


I hope this article is helpful… Feel free to share your experiences here for other travelers. It may sound like rough territory, but I LOVE Africa and would recommend it over any other continent. You can still find plenty of smart, beautiful, caring and incredible women here, perhaps even the mother of your child. If you’re looking for real adventure, incredible scenery, wild sex, and stories that will last a life time… this is the ultimate destination.

Forget what you’ve heard, experience the reality. This is Africa my friends. Welcome to the last frontier. Go.


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98 Responses to Sex in Africa 101 – MUST READ!

  1. Adventure21c June 21, 2011 at 4:06 pm #

    One fine way to make one dangerous place on earth sound very seductive…damn!

    • Catherine June 16, 2014 at 11:57 pm #

      I hope each and last one of you people (including the ass who wrote this) realize this is a complete lie. African women are not made for their bodies. They have personalities, brains. And africa is not rithing with poverty and disease. White people, what the actual fuck is wrong with yall? Do you mot realize how psychotic and just plan ridiculous this article even is?

      • Martin July 24, 2014 at 2:07 am #

        i agree with you! my wife is from abidjan. many of my friends are from africa. this story was only write for horny guys, without brains. sorry!

        • Peter July 26, 2014 at 6:06 pm #

          Catherine and Martin:
          There are people going to church every week. There are people shooting on civil planes and killing 300. There are all sorts of ppl in this world.

          If you don’t like what the author wrote – just move on to your green bench instead of starting a fight: using words like “the ass who wrote this” or “ppl having no brains” is not the way intelligent people discuss about controversial opinions.

          Most of the readers, who purposely clicked on the articles, do like what is written. And as frequent Africa traveler, I can say: the facts are correct.
          I rest my case – and so should you!

          • Mark October 2, 2015 at 1:09 pm #

            Well said!

        • Mark October 2, 2015 at 1:12 pm #

          Wow, I’m sure that not every man with dick must be Einstein like you probably think you are. xaxaxa!!! By the way, did you read this article?

      • gj July 26, 2014 at 7:19 pm #

        This is not a “normal” website…it is mainly for guys who want to have a lot of sex with a lot of girls. They aren’t picking on Africa, or African girls, specifically….all of the guides for sites worldwide read like this.There are LOTS of travel blogs that are “normal”.

        And, Africa IS writhing with poverty, and disease…the two go hand-in-hand. Africa has the poorest people on the planet, and a LOT of it has to do with corruption. I lived in Nairobi, and it is one of the few places I would not live…and it is because of the corruption, which leads to poverty.

        It is normal to pay for sex. Even if you live in Africa, a “normal” girlfriend or wife will demand a monthly salary. West Africa has a LOT of multiple partner arrangements, as you noted.

      • Chris January 25, 2015 at 10:49 pm #

        As someone who has lived and worked in Africa for 34 years I can tell you that the article is nearly spot on. Most sexual liaisons are transactional from straightforward prostitutes to those looking for gifts or favours including drinks and dinner with a bit of shopping thrown in. I have lived in West, East and South Africa and the safest sex on terms understandable to Europeans is in South Africa. Kenyans will straight out ask you for money even if you think it is a date and Nigerians or ‘night fighters’ as we called them are open to negotiation. Never go back to a ‘dates’ house, ever! In SA you will meet most escorts at their flats which are safe and secure, Kenyans will always come with you. African women are an absolute delight not only beautiful but with a great sense of humour and a native intelligence that is endearing, they engage in sex in a way white women must have forgotten. So go for it and just use your common sense.

      • JASMYN February 7, 2015 at 3:23 am #


      • Loris Chiovitto June 20, 2015 at 1:07 pm #

        Please guy Africa is not only for go find women for fun.
        Who wrote that post is a person who is habit make sexual vacation

      • J.R. January 14, 2016 at 7:52 pm #

        Shut up you dumb cunt.

    • gj February 11, 2015 at 12:24 am #

      Africa is not dangerous. Certain parts are, certain parts are not…Just like the U.S. it is a HUGE continent, and the countries vary greatly, just like states in the U.S. very greatly.

  2. C June 21, 2011 at 4:35 pm #

    “You can still find plenty of smart, beautiful, caring and incredible women here, perhaps even someone to share your life with…”

    My god man! No need to dress up a pig for us 🙂

    It sounds about exactly the same as gaming African-American girls. The hot ones have the best bodies out of any girl, its usually transactional (albeit in a more socially acceptable way), one night stands are easy, and the STD rate is crazy high… I’m just sayin’

    Great report!

    • gj July 26, 2014 at 7:21 pm #

      There IS a lot of great wife material in Africa….a LOT!!! And, if you want to live there, or live with an African wife in a Muslim country, you can easily have more than one wife.

  3. Jesse Charger June 21, 2011 at 5:04 pm #

    Nomad, I got a call from National Geographic, they want to hire you! 😉

  4. Atlas Al June 21, 2011 at 7:53 pm #

    I agree with the “Africa is the last frontier” bit. I’ve been to every continent except Africa (a week at a Tunisian beach resort doesn’t count), but I really want to do a Cape Town to Cairo type of trip, and a trip up the west coast.

    Also for the record: been with African-Americans but never with an African Flag, one of my last flagging frontiers 😉

    • J.R. January 14, 2016 at 7:54 pm #

      Who cares?

  5. Roosh June 21, 2011 at 9:01 pm #

    I’d like to put in a request for an “Best African Countries For Newbies” post. Something like the three countries that are safest and least corrupt for people wanting to explore africa can and get their feet wet before diving into water.

    • Naughty Nomad June 22, 2011 at 2:49 pm #

      @Roosh: I’ll see what I can do…

    • gj July 26, 2014 at 7:24 pm #

      Sub-Saharan Africa:
      The Gambia
      Ghana (except now it is not very nice because of the Ebola outbreak)
      Cape Town, South Africa (NOT Johannesburg…that is horrendously unsafe)

      North of the Sahara, I recommend Morocco.

      • Tarzan February 12, 2016 at 4:31 pm #

        I used to work in Tangiers, Morocco. It’s a seedy city with a cool mix of Arab Africans and dark immigrants from all over Africa trying to cross the Med. Some beautiful stunning sexy girls . After dark the later it gets, do not wonder home after visiting a girls pad. I have worked in the worlds toughest places and this is dangerous. The chick told me that gangs of guys in taxis go looking for foreigners. Just to kill, lucky if you are just kidnapped. They hate westerners taking their women. In fact 50% of 9/11 team were Moroccans. They simply just don’t like us. Be careful in Maroc !!! Having said that… Oh man , the babes are hot and ready.

  6. Thomas June 21, 2011 at 9:23 pm #

    I would never advise for a a guy unfamiliar with the country that he is in to go to a woman’s place that he met at a club. Its extremely dangerous and unwise. Anything could happen… kidnapped, robbed, killed. Otherwise great post!!

    Have you ever been to Nigeria?You know thats where Oluchi’s from the beauty in the blue bikini that you named TIA hahaha.

    • gj July 26, 2014 at 7:25 pm #

      I tend to agree…Unless it’s a rich, upscale lady, I would recommend at your place, as it is just TOO DANGEROUS to go to her place…too much chance of robbery and/or assault.

      If you know the person and are 100% sure she is a decent person, then I would go to her place.

  7. mister June 21, 2011 at 10:08 pm #

    lol, by “tia” do you mean Oluchi Onweagba

    really dude?

    • Naughty Nomad June 22, 2011 at 2:51 pm #

      @Mister and Thomas: T.I.A means This is Africa. I’ve been in Nigeria – it’s CRAZY!

  8. Wonky June 21, 2011 at 11:04 pm #

    This isn’t you, is it??

    • Naughty Nomad June 22, 2011 at 2:52 pm #

      @wonky: No, it is not.

  9. Neil Skywalker June 22, 2011 at 1:24 am #

    Hmm, getting curious now. Maybe an idea for a next trip. First i gotta finish this one.

  10. The Hunger June 22, 2011 at 9:10 am #

    Great report, Sex in Africa 101 indeed, never seen a decent report of Africa before – It all sounds good except the 90% are prostitutes part. In any case, you’ve got some stones NN, you got stones.

    Who do you travel with?

    • Naughty Nomad June 22, 2011 at 2:55 pm #

      @The Hunger: It depends… I done West Africa with my friend. Sometimes I’m alone or with other people. I’m lucky I have friends who love to travel as much as I do.

    • gj July 26, 2014 at 7:27 pm #

      It depends on what you mean by “Prostitutes”. Most of the girls are unemployed, or have one or more full-time jobs. They do not do prostitution all the time…some maybe only once a week/once a month, etc. They will have sex for money on the side…but they are not what we would consider “Prostitutes” in the developing world.

    • gj February 11, 2015 at 12:37 am #

      95% or so of women on earth are prostitutes.

  11. bigfoot June 22, 2011 at 5:55 pm #

    West Africa, the final frontier of sex.
    I’m gonna cut my teeth on Europe, then Southeast Asia and Latin America before attempting Africa. But I will do it nonetheless.

  12. Man of World June 23, 2011 at 6:54 pm #

    Hey NN. Sounds like quite the adventure. I first visited West Africa last year- Abuja, Nigeria to be exact. First day there found a girl in a night club and I’ve had the jungle fever ever since. The image of her will never leave my mind. Was back in Abuja this year and more fun ensued. Hoping my trip to Cote D’Ivoire happens this year.

    Couple things I want to emphasize NN’s points of: 1) Carry only cash that you need, nothing else, besides maybe a throwaway phone. I’ve never had problems, but have had many co-workers robbed in Africa. 2) wrap it up! 3) The women are hot and ready to get down. They will try to angle for money, just play it cool, and work jealousy plotlines or whatever to get her to want you.

    • Naughty Nomad June 23, 2011 at 9:38 pm #

      @ManofWorld: Right on man.

  13. Thomas June 24, 2011 at 9:16 am #


    Do you have a preference for black women?

    • Naughty Nomad June 24, 2011 at 11:27 am #

      I got through phases… anything that isn’t Irish is good with me.

  14. Flyy Guyy June 27, 2011 at 6:43 pm #

    Going to Cairo next year, and was in Ghana in 2008, NN you’re not lying one of my favorite places in the world, as a young African American who travels frequently (only continent I still have to go to is Australia ) and i constantly tell people don’t pay attention to the media go to Africa, it’ll be the greatest experience of your life. The women totally caught me off guard, beautiful faces bodies etc

  15. justin June 28, 2011 at 3:34 pm #

    Hey bro could you help me decide where to go? 12-14 days Ethiopia/Kenya or Uganda. Or 12-14 days Sierra Leone/Liberia? Think I could add any more countries in that time depending on what area I hit?

    • gj July 26, 2014 at 7:29 pm #

      Don’t go to Kenya…Ethiopia, Uganda, Tanzania and Rwanda are all better choices.

  16. myles August 25, 2011 at 3:01 pm #

    good info bro Ive meet some bad ass ivory coast ladies that made me wanna go!! your article confirmed it im booking flight next month hey dude never go to chick house u just met 2 avoid bring her 2 yo room have a cheaper hotel room set aside. that rule applies in every country and race. anyway u & your peoples keep exploring new frontiers and keep safety a third priority lol PEACE

  17. cristian October 16, 2011 at 4:16 am #

    TIA is …. Nigerian Model Oluchi Onweagba ?

    • Naughty Nomad October 16, 2011 at 12:50 pm #

      TIA is a popular acronym for ‘This Is Africa’

    • Raven February 10, 2015 at 8:00 pm #

      she is damn hot!

  18. GlobeTrottin February 17, 2012 at 6:13 pm #

    Nice blog NN, I’ve also been to Nigeria about 20 times and Ghana maybe 5 and all the rest at least once with the best being Senegal, staying sometimes up to 2 months at a time since it was for work. Its exactly like you describe it but worth mentioning these are the most filthy places in the world with the exception of maybe Delhi and each country in west Africa is very different from the next.. Most foreigners hate it when they have to go to these places for work and you are the first person I have ever heard of that goes to Nigeria for vacation. I was in West Africa for probably 2 months before I started getting out and enjoying the nightlife so I commend you for your bravery.

    Im sure you know all the places in Lagos like the “Y-Not” and “Pats Bar” plus my main spot in Accra, “Macumba”.

    One the ways to get a girl without spending cash is to give her the impression your looking for a women to bring home, the ultimate goal of all the girls in West Africa is to meet European, American or South African guys that will rescue them from the asshole of planet earth. If they think they have a chance of getting entry Visa into a western country and a plane ticket out of hell they would never take the chance of scaring you off by demanding money. It wasn’t until maybe my 10th visit into Africa that I figured this out.

    • gj July 26, 2014 at 7:30 pm #

      Nigeria is horrendous from a personal safety point of view…only Somalia and Johannesburg are as bad as Nigeria.

    • hugebull September 15, 2014 at 4:16 am #

      I love fucking but I would not bring myself low enough to lie or mislead someone about my intentions. Just find someone who knows what you want (a good time and a good fuck) and have fun.

  19. Piet February 21, 2012 at 5:40 am #

    Did Ghana, did SA, did some other bits of Africa — but ultimate is Madgascar: Secure to travel, unique nature, friendly people — and 5/5 sexual encounters with nymph bodies as a mix of Indon origin and African influence… Go! as it may disappear in near future.

    • Naughty Nomad February 21, 2012 at 11:23 pm #

      Thanks for the tip man!!!

    • @199flags September 17, 2015 at 7:51 pm #

      Madagascar that sounds epic, like some shit out of Aladdin, This sounds like a hell of journey NN you got me inspired. My Somalian buddy was telling me to hit up Ethiopia.

  20. BKAPRIDE June 30, 2012 at 8:16 am #

    Wigger stick to your own kind! Pathetic!!

  21. Yagir July 31, 2012 at 8:59 pm #


    I love your site dude. You have been able to put words on some things I have doing for a while. Im back in the US after living several years in West Africa, where I simply woke up sexually. African girls are the best tight round bodies ever, and plenty are damned hot in bed. I remember girls fighting each other for me in Niger. I had a sleepless night on the top of a castle in Ghana facing the sea on a hot full moon. I’ve had my banger pumped at night in a huge traditionnal ritual in Nigeria, and got laid under the burning sun in a field with a guinean peasant girl, got abused against my own will in Dakar in a way i never understood. Made love to the three young maids, one after the other, in a small guest house in a village in Burkina Faso. Made a motorcycle road trip in Mali with a teenager with immense boobs, doing “Pit stops” many times a day! Had one in a open-air restaurant at night in Abidjan, when the electricity was cut off. Made a noisy one try to do it silently in a almost empty intercity bus in northern Ghana.

    I’ve had dozens of them, and always (or almost) stayed very picky, and never paid, even with hookers. It also took me time to balance well my tactics to bring them to me, push and pull marketing, and play the love story when the right moment to hook has come. A nice gentle kiss and its over, and sometime I really felt it! Ive met a lot of very cool girls with whom I spent some amazing time. I ve tried to stay respectful and not bullshit them too much. Love Africa.

    The only problems Ive had is when I stayed at the same place for too long. Ive even seen mothers try to force me into bed with their girls to make them pregnant… Get far from these! A load of problems.

    Some girls want cash, some want to marry a foreigner to travel or have a good social status, and some just want to taste some fresh exotic meat (the kind I like!)

  22. walter October 27, 2012 at 7:00 pm #

    aids is more common in the south of africa because its more christian…while the north are more muslim so less likly to find aids
    but I wouldnt go to devolping countries since they are more conservative,uglier on average, more likly to catch something gross ,can be targeted and killed
    plus i d feel disgusted chasin poor 4rd world girls
    1st booty all the way

    • gj July 26, 2014 at 7:32 pm #

      I think the girls in developing countries are on the average much better looking…

  23. walter October 27, 2012 at 7:01 pm #

    3rd world my bad

  24. hassan November 7, 2012 at 11:32 am #

    i need a beutifull and sexy girl from ghana for marrige,if any girls want to do pls send me email to know each others more

  25. george December 18, 2012 at 5:48 pm #


  26. pissed December 19, 2012 at 12:01 pm #

    You hav no respect..and these are total lies*

  27. Mike January 2, 2013 at 5:33 pm #

    I hae been to Lagos twice now. The second time for sex. As always try to join up with Nigerian who know the score. Use a condom. My girl took charge and gave great blow jobs. Really recommended.

  28. davinci March 20, 2013 at 7:05 pm #

    I’m Nigerian, but I will give u a few hints. I travel a lot too so I guess I would need tips someday too. NN is 70% right. I think being caucasian & sleeping in the girls room is unneccesary risk.if ure reasonably attractive,get hooked up to the university communities OR the night spots they frequent. Nubile & stunning sexy sirens everywhere. Money helps, but ure also likely to score if u are friendly,polite & show urself to be a good sport (Curiousity on their part will do the rest for u )Good hunting!

    • Naughty Nomad March 21, 2013 at 1:53 pm #

      True that. You need to careful about going back to theirs. Always plan an escape route.

  29. Mike April 9, 2013 at 5:42 pm #

    Naughty, sounds like you have at least a little coin. I’m seeking partners to start a gold operation in Ghana. Best of both worlds – make money and live it up. Any interest? Funny you mention finding a wife or at least baby momma. That’s what I’m looking for. So wick of spoiled, demanding American and Latina bitches!! Just want to share love, happiness and great sex with a beautiful woman. Drop me an e-mail.

    • kato May 9, 2016 at 4:27 am #

      Gold operation? More info?

  30. cliff May 8, 2013 at 1:24 am #

    Safety: Outside of places like Mogadishu, Darfur, or Eastern DRC (Congo), South Africa (specifically Johannesburg) and Nigeria (especially Lagos) are the most dangerous countries.

    For tourists, The Gambia, and Ghana, both in West Africa, are the best. Tanzania is best if you want to Safari. The East African Coast (Tanzania, Zanzibar and Kenya) are next best tourist spots after The Gambia/Ghana.

    In East and West Africa, virtually every girl is a prostitute. If they are not full-time pros, say a “regular” girlfriend, or wife, you have to negotiate a monthly salary for them. Most of the non-pros will do stuff they normally wouldn’t, for the right price. If you don’t pay up front, they will be asking for taxi fare, rent, money for a sick relative, etc., etc.

    Many want to have a white baby and/or want to marry you. In East Africa it is common to have multiple wives and/or girlfriends/wives. In West Africa, Togo specifically, it is anything goes: Girls can have multiple husbands, etc. Many girls in Africa will have multiple boyfriends, guys on the side, etc.

    I would also recommend NOT going to the girl’s place. I was told many times that it could be a trap. Also, many of the places that “normal” Africans live are just not very nice…usually even a low-budget “Western” hotel is often much nicer than the normal living arrangements. In the cities there are MILLIONS without water, electricity, and without sewage/toilets.

    All of the above applies to Sub-Saharan Africa. North of the Sahara, it is much more like the Middle-East or Europe. If you want a “real” African adventure, go South of the Sahara.

    PS-Uganda and Ethiopia are pretty nice…i would rank them ahead of Kenya. The interior of Africa is not very nice at all. Kinshasa and the DRC (Congo)….I would recommend not going there.

  31. gj January 29, 2014 at 5:58 pm #

    The Sub-Saharan best African countries: Ghana and The Gambia (a VERY small country inside Senegal). I also like Addis Abeba (Ethiopia).

    The North African countries are different…much more Mediterranean and Middle-Eastern…they are NOT like the rest of Africa, and I don’t know too much about them.

  32. ashik March 18, 2014 at 6:30 am #

    Hi Bro
    Though i am living, going arround in africa for 13 years, my knowledge over women so poor , that i am ashamed of!! lol
    will be in africa end march , any contact , guides for Lome, Abidjan, coutonou??

    • davinci March 25, 2014 at 6:42 pm #

      Hey bruv. Of the 3 places u mentioned,id recommend Abidjan 100% its fun,better infrastructure & sexy bodies everywhere. The girls are also facinated with any foreigner that shows a willingness to learn a few french phrases & is a good sport. Trust me…its a chick magnet!!!

    • gj July 26, 2014 at 7:36 pm #

      Lome is small and the infrastructure is crap. No tourists go there. There are a few clubs downtown where it is super easy to pick up girls, but you probably will have to pay. I think Diamond is one of them…just ask around. Personal safety is good there. Coutonou is more developed and I assume more clubs and more girls.

      I would avoid Abidjan right now because of the Ebola problems.

      • Poonanny Scout August 4, 2014 at 4:55 am #

        Lome actually has one of the best clubs in West Africa, La Privilege, right down on the beach next to Palm Beach Hotel.

        It doesn’t get cranking till after midnight and is only crowded on the weekend although they got a nice little Ladies Night crowd going on Thursdays. Good DJ’s, good mix of music and lots of horny girls.

        Cotonou’s main night spot is New York with adjacent casino. And right before you hit New York, as you pass Hall des Arts, there is an outdoor bar on the corner where everything goes.

  33. grunter August 17, 2014 at 7:10 am #

    Hahaha like the author says…JUST GO it is true what he says I can’t get enough of Africa

  34. tin-tin September 17, 2014 at 11:32 am #

    Hi guys, what about Cameroon and the comparison with other west African countries…???

    • terrafirma October 15, 2014 at 12:33 am #


      Cameroon is awesome too. It doesn’t exactly rate better than places like Abidjan, Accra and Banjul (The Gambia) in West Africa, but the best place to hit the bullseye in Cameroon is Douala. It has excellent weather and most expats live and work there. That alone makes it more expensive than other parts like the capital Yaounde. That said, Cameroon is also a nice spot.


  35. Loner76 December 26, 2014 at 8:10 am #

    Hi NN!

    It’s my first encounter with your fabulous website and I surely loved it at the first sight. Just what I’d been looking for.

    I’m a 40-years old guy of Indian origin, living in Dubai since many years. Never really got seriously hooked up in life and never got married for sure. Going to exotic locations on escapades has been a life-long dream for me. And if that’s been my dream, then Africa has been my fantasy land.

    I’m really glad I came across this write up. And it’s pretty comprehensive. Yet, I’d like to ask you (or the other knowledgeable / experienced readers of the forum):

    1. In this article, you’ve just generally described West & sub-saharan Africa. It would help if you could publish your personal list of specific country names, keeping in mind factors like women’s hotness, the ease of picking them up and then also the safety & security situation.

    2. There was quite a debate on whether you should / shouldn’t go to the girl’s place in a region like Africa. But how’bout if you’re yourself staying in a hotel? Are there good (but not super expensive) hotels with in-house pickup bars / clubs?

    3. Personally, I don’t mind paying for sex, as long as it’s not a racket. Going to a poorer region where the girls are doing it to make a living, I don’t mind contributing to this shadow economy. So when it comes to that, which place would you say rates the best?

    I’d love to have inputs from you…


  36. Shawn January 19, 2015 at 8:27 pm #

    All this about African girls sounds great but there is one thing I have noticed that I think is worth mentioning. I’m a fairly experience solo traveler for girls mainly in Latin America, but I’ve been to Jamaica and the Philippines too, however I’ve noticed that when pipelining for African girls I hit a very unexpected and unprecedented problem. I’m certainly no the tallest guy in the world at 5-6, though I’m well proportioned and have good muscle tone doesn’t change the fact that I’m still 5-6 and it seem the majority of women at least in Nigeria where I’m looking since I like the more darker skinned, less mixed, and English speaking girls are taller than I am. This wouldn’t be a big problem but it seems to be for them as many will actually tell you in their profiles they are looking for a tall man, so height is definitely an important thing for many African girls just so you know.

    This is a new issue I’ve never been faced with before and has seriously made me reconsider going to Africa, though what you see on the websites and what you experience when you’re actually there could be very different. Still, is it worth the risk? I still may go, but not unless I get more comforting information.

    Thought about other possible destinations for really dark back girls but nothing sounds as nice as Africa, especially when Jamaica was such a disappointment. Was thinking of East Cuba but since there is so little information about it I’m not sure I want to take the risk, but sounds good on paper. Also west DR and north Haiti are considerations.

    • Naughty Nomad January 20, 2015 at 10:20 am #

      In Africa, white trumps height when it comes to attraction. The two both signal status. A large portion of girls I hooked up with there were taller than me.

      • Shawn January 21, 2015 at 3:42 am #

        Thanks for the info Nomad, that’s certainly helpful to know and makes me feel better..but to be truly fair I think you’re more than a little taller than I am, so even if some of those girls were taller than you, you’re still at a more average height to the norm which could make them feel more comfortable with you even if they were taller, just saying.. but as I said, that does make me feel more comfortable, so thanks for that. 🙂

        • kalok May 25, 2016 at 7:00 pm #

          Who cares about height? Well, obviously being a midget is not really attractive but anything at or above 173CM+ for a male is average IMO.

    • Peter January 20, 2015 at 11:09 am #

      Consider Madagascar if you speak French and got some preference to the french-way-of-life: No McDon but fresh baguette 🙂
      A big group of the Mada folks did migrate from Indonesia 2000 years ago. In general they are not towering you and in their attitude not rough players as Kenians or Gambians can be.
      Its a different Afrika.

      • Shawn January 21, 2015 at 3:51 am #

        I appreciate the advice Peter but if I knew a little French I would seriously consider a couple of the countries west of Nigeria that Nomad mentioned and sounded good. Don’t really have the time for learning French when I still have a lot of Spanish to still work on.

    • gj February 11, 2015 at 12:07 am #

      U don’t want to go to Nigeria. Lagos especially is one of the most dangerous cities, along with Johannesburg and Mogadishu.

      Accra, Ghana, The Gambia, Senegal, Morocco and Addis Abeba, Ethiopia are probably the best. Tanzania and Uganda are good.

      U might rant to look into Brazzaville or Pointe Noire, both Republic Of The Congo.

      • sandy August 29, 2015 at 9:52 am #

        You know there’s more to Nigeria than Lagos right?

  37. Mars March 16, 2015 at 2:53 am #

    I’ve been following the naughtymomad blog for a long time. for some reason the writing style has change for some reason? Why?

  38. zee May 28, 2015 at 2:25 am #

    where i can find SAFE Sex or Massage in Johanaburg SA

  39. Mars PUA December 3, 2015 at 10:02 pm #

    Some of the funniest shit I’ve read in a long time.

  40. Punter February 10, 2016 at 4:56 pm #

    First, shame to all of you who disregard Eastern Africa-Kenya in particular! I don’t know where you are getting your information from but it definitely isn’t from first hand experience. For your information, Kenya has some of the most beautiful women in the African continent. Their beauty is often accompanied by an alluring African charm you can only get from a Kenyan woman. Not all Africans-women in particular, live in uninhabitable areas. There are plenty of sexually adventurous Kenyan women who are well educated up to PhD and masters level’s, who live in the leafy suburbs and posher areas of the country. It would be a shame to think the white man still carries the bushman image in his system of belief about the African people as a whole. Times have changed and so is everything else. I don’t know where you people hang out when you visit Kenya, but if you bothered to actually take your time to learn about the country and the sexually exploits you’re interested in, you’d know that there’s the 1%, upper middle class, lower middle class…etc, just like in a developed country. Just because the media has publicised negative imagery about the country, it does not mean that the entire country’s population should be stigmatised due to ignorance and lack of proper common sense. There’s plenty of everything depending on your level of compitence. Next time you want to name bash a country you have no clear evidenciary knowledge of, think about how it would be if the situation was reversed and it was you being negatively publicised. You should look at institutions like the United Nations and other NGO’s that regularly recruit expats to work in the country. Get in touch with some and gather accurate information in the scene before concluding nonsensical inaccurate information. Not every Kenyan is poor, not every Kenyan is a violently malicious thief, not every place in Kenya is horrendously poor in infrastructure! FYI there’s an invention called plumbing which comes with flushing toilets, sinks with clean running water, proper septic pipelines, exclusive high income estates some with golf courses and others with individual swimming pools and such…you know, the kind of stuff you’d find in gated communities in developed countties as well. So just because you happened to hear all this negativity you think that must be the situation or maybe when you visited you went hunting for pussy in dingy areas. What dingy is, dingy will get. Supposing you went to a five star establishment, you’d find plenty of women there willing to indulge in flirtation and maybe more. Rich is not rare in Kenya and the same goes for personal hygiene, infrastructure and education. So next time before you go posting half-truths, make sure you have explored both sides then write on your accurate experiences instead of speculating on a few bad experiences that do not quantify what a real Kenyan experience is. Safaris are there and like everything else they are offered in accordance to your budget so if you can only afford the bronze package, don’t make everyone believe that is the only experience available. Contrary to the monkeys in suits mocking and pointing fingers at Kenyans and how supposedly horrid the living standards are, Kenya is a beautiful country with beautiful women who happen to be educated, living well heeled lifestyles and can speak two languages or more. So before you talk in disbelief about a situation you don’t fully comprehend, remember that Kenyans too can afford to drink champagne, own a hatch, build mansions, jet set in private planes and generally live a fabulous life while being falsely judged by incompetent ninkaputs who cannot bother to lift a finger or two to do the necessary research. FYI I am from a simple family, and started working when i was 18 so i could buy myself a car and a house. Guess what? I am barely 20 and I already travelled to more than 5 countries, almost done paying my mortgage and drive a very cute sports car. I can afford to sustain the same life as a person living in tribeca-New York with half the stress and twice the fun. Shocker I’m not dirty or ugly like your previous posts suggested. Oh! and my house happens to have indoor and outdoor plumbing…dickwards!! So in short, we are like any other developed country-full of diversity and potential. Corruption is there but it is dying out slowly.

    • Casteneriao Foulsmearetyr March 27, 2016 at 4:27 pm #

      Damn, Punter, I thought I loved Kenya more than anyone…guess not, haha. Fact is, the dude could not be more right and anyone who sleeps on Kenya, specifically Nairobi 2016, is missing out on one of the greatest places on earth. Same holds for the whole country really. Kenyans are smart, funny and hard working and the women are absolutely stunning with amazing senses of humor and really know how to treat their men. I have fallen hard for so many Kenyan women that I wish I could have married them all. Anyway, Punter has really said all that needs to be said but as a westerner who has lived in Kenya for the past seven years, y’all are karibu sana and I think you will find that much of the negativity is just plain wrong, outdated or people trying to keep this place to themselves (which I thought about before writing this, but there are too many really good women for me to handle, so I am a happy to share!)

  41. Pirre Martin March 29, 2016 at 4:12 pm #

    Moving further down the continent to a city named gaborone is even worse off. More than 95% of ladies who walk in the malls and streets are after transactional sex. They look like ordinary city dwellers, yes going about their businesses like coming from or going to college, going for work or to attend weekend events, the main thing in their minds is transactional sex. To make matters worse, they ask for up front payment/benefit, they don’t offer sex same day, it usually comes several weeks or even months after. Ladies in Botswana are simply the hardest to please. They are just too demanding, especially ladies between ages of 18 and 40. A guy can advance several payments or benefits prior to actually hitting the first round. If you are not patient enough, your pocket as a guy would be drained for nothing.
    Clever guys never bother dating young ladies in Botswana, they cross to neighbouring countries for smarter, polite and even good looking women.

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  42. dante June 28, 2016 at 5:40 pm #

    i just can’t think that ‘go to her place’ is a good idea if you are worried about getting robbed or some sort of scam

    one of the most important things is to control the environment, letting her pick the location makes it 100 times easier for her to scam you

    getting a short time hotel is great advice, if you are worried that there is some sort of set up then that is very wise

    but going to her place? i think i would rather she know where i stay then be led off to some unknown place where she has the upper hand

  43. francis August 19, 2016 at 2:27 pm #

    Hi Guys,

    Look I need some serious help. Im in Dakar. I need to get laid, like now. But not with a prostitute, I dont want to have to pay for anything.
    ANY advice would be appreciated.

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    • john September 22, 2016 at 10:22 am #

      i’m a man interesting much at you.
      don’t understood if you are 2 woman or a a couple bisex.
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  45. Larry October 24, 2016 at 10:47 am #

    Thank you for the sex in Africa 101 tip, Naughty Nomad. As a Black Man myself, I enjoy having sex with a Black Black. A Black Woman’s vagina feels tight during intercourse and I love that tight vagina going in and out of my penis. Going to Africa in a sex tour never came to my mind to now. Right now I live in North Carolina, unemployed, and never been outside the USA. Now-a-days it is very hard to found any type of work in the USA.Even through I enjoy having sex with a Black Woman, sex is not the only thing I’m looking for. Since I love a tight vagina on a woman, Asian Women have a tighter vagina, I heard that Asian Men have a smaller penis. Black women have a tight vagina. So with a Black woman, it is not just about the sex, I have strong desires for Black Women and I want to be with one and form a friendship, Relationship, or even marriage! I love Black Women! Again, thank you for your tips, and when I get a job, pay all my student loan debts, get a passport, and save some money, one day in the near future, if I still be single I will go to this African sex tour and get some tight African pussy!!!!! I miss the feel of my penis inside a tight Black Vagina. Dark Brown Ebony Black Vagina on the outside, pink on the inside! Feels so great!


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