Logistics is the most overlooked part of picking up abroad, but it is crucial.

You can get spruced up and go out, have women swooning over you all night and run your best game, but if you don’t have a place to do the deed, it’s all for nothing. Don’t get me wrong, sometimes you’ll ‘get lucky’. She might have her own place—or be slutty enough to take a pounding in the nightclub toilet or your hostel dorm room—but the truth is, more often than not, you’ll end up alone in a frustrated wankaton, thinking about what could have been.

Hoping to get lucky? Fuck that. Real luck is simply preparation meeting opportunity.

Logistics, logistics, logistics.

The more I travel, the more I feel the need to hammer home this point in caveman speak: NO ROOM, NO BOOM-BOOM. If your logistics are sucky, you ain’t getting lucky.

This means spending more money and increasing your travel budget. Don’t like the sound of that? Well, then go fuck yourself. Literally. Quality chicks don’t dig  ninja sex in smelly dorms.

In conclusion, you need to upgrade from a Backpacker’s budget to a Player’s budget.  In general, whether you’re bouncing around  Asia, Africa or Europe, this equates to roughly $1500-$2000+ a month, minimum. When I first starting travelling I got by on $1200 a month, but now I  spend around 2K and shell out for proper accommodation and drink like a fish every night. As result, the amount of naked women in my bed has increased ten-fold.

So, here’s the game plan…

Rent an Apartment

This is the best possible option. Make sure it’s near the action, too. Google ‘city x’, ‘short term’ and ‘apartment’, or use sites likes AirBnB.com. Even if you’re only staying two nights, it’s worth it. You’d be surprised what gems you can get for $30 a night. (From now on in my city guides, I will give you guys tips in this regard). I also recommend you get an apartment with wifi. It’s make a huge different, especially in conservative countries. With the web, your place becomes a web itself. You can creep online for local ladies without even venturing outside, meet them discreetly, and lure them back to feast on their flesh. Also, it’s just good if you want to check your emails, log on to partycasino.com or read the best of the manosphere.

Renting a hotel room

You could also get a hotel room—an expensive option, that personally, I avoid like the plague. Unfortunately, sometime you have no choice. The most important thing is to make sure that your hotel is ‘guest’ friendly. You’d be surprised how many hotels are cunts about people having casual sex. In the Middle East, even in a relatively liberal place like Lebanon, they ask for passports and details. If you’re with a local, they cannot stay with you to stay there unless you’re married. WTF? I know this from painful experience, hotel-hopping in Beirut for two hours in the middle of the night.

Private Room in a Hostel

This is often a great compromise. Many (if not most) hostels offer cheap private rooms. You meet people, get the party atmosphere of a hostel, but you don’t have to deal with dorm rooms or the expense of hotels. In Scandinavia, this was ace.  The only problem is this: many hostels, like hotels, are not ‘guest’ friendly either. In Georgia, for example, every hostel we went to don’t even let locals (except staff) on the premises! I had the same problems in China and Africa. Western European hostels tend to be major cockblockers, too, with heavy security at night and rigorous interrogations before they even let you inside.

“Where is your key card?”

“What your name and room number?”

“Who is that drunk black chick hoisted over you’re shoulder?”

Give me break, will ya?! I understand you need to keep out sleazy whoremongers and street hookers, but what about us legitimate players just having fun?

Love Motels / Brothels

A last resort, but sometimes, in the likes of Liberia or Korea, you have no choice than a rent-by-the-hour shithole. Hey, if it gets the job done, screw it. It’s better than nothing. At least in East Asia these places have a limited degree of class. But have you ever smelt the cum of  the unwashed pillows of a Guinean brothel?

I have. 

Too many times, my friends.

But it’s the sacrifice I make to get the job done.

Other Articles on Logistics:

How to have sex in a hostel by Nomadic Matt

The secret to fast sex by Roosh V

Advanced Logistics video by Adam Lyons

 

Following on from my last post, I thought I’d offer you guys a cool little gambit for wingman game.

A good wing is hard to find.

In fact, when it comes to cockblocking, your ‘non-game’ friends are often the worst offenders. Even when it comes to myself and my crew, sometimes we get drunk, horny and competitive. Invariably, this leads to poor wingmanship. However, more often than not, we do out best to help each other out.

We give each other accomplishment introductions and big each other up. Example:

“Ladies, this is Jay. He’s travelled the world and make movies.” *COUGH* “…and he’s a stallion in the sack.” *COUGH*

That kinda spiel.

My boys are also great at running interference on friends, groups and other orbiters. Even when I’m trying to pull some guy’s girlfriend, my mates will distract the boyfriend so I can work her. On one occasion, one of my mates even paid to get some guy completely blackout-drunk so I could  sneak off with his girl.

Anyway, this is all standard stuff. What I wanted to tell you about was a wee wingman move my fellow crew-member Barnacle B does when we’re on tour…

The Shazam Wing Technique

Let’s say you’re chatting up a girl in a busy bar. You’ve been talking to her for a few minutes and you’ve already isolated her.  You feel a good vibe going on. However, you’re both nearly finished your drinks. What do you do next?

Option #1: You get yourself a drink and leave her dry. But now you’ve just dampened the vibe and risk looking cheap. I don’t care how ‘alpha’ this move may seem where you’re from. If try this in certain parts of the world, you may lower your chances.  Plus, she getting soberer while you’re getting drunker which sucks balls.

Option #2: You get drinks for both of you. But now you may look a like needy bitch. This is often a better option in developing countries where the chicks are broke, but try this move in the West and you’ll usually lower your value.

Option #3: You just wait. You’re too scabby, fucked, lazy or uninterested to go to the bar. But now you’re both getting sober. Plus, what if she goes to the bar instead? This opens the door for the problems mentioned in #1 and #4.

Option #4: You go to the bar for a drink, but when you return, her girlfriend/ guyfriend/another player is buzzing around her like a fly on shit, cockblocking you and wrecking your buzz in the process.

Now, logic says the solution is just to stand by the bar, but that’s not always an option.

So what’s a guy to do?

Answer: Hopefully nothing.

This is where your wing comes in. When my mate Barnacle B sees me chatting up a girl  and we’re coming to the end of our glasses, he’ll take note of what we’re drinking. (If he can’t tell what she’s drinking, sometimes he’ll discreetly ask her friend.)

He then goes up to bar, buys us a round, casually walks over and hands us the drinks, gives me a respectful pat on on the arm and then casually exits the scene.

Sometimes he might add something like, “This guy is a legend,” or “A friend of Mark is a friend of mine.”

The key thing is: whatever he does, he does it in a manner that acknowledges me as the alpha male, assuming the role of a kind beta just glad to serve his master and his latest fancy.

Now that’s a wingman. A real player roots for the guys in his crew.

My girl and I are both getting drunker, I look like the shit, and the magic of the interaction continues. Booze appears like pixie dust as I cast my spell upon her—and she gets ever closer to my wand alakazaming all over her boobies.

So next time you see your friend in a similar scenario, help a brother out and perform the Shazam Wing Gambit.

Alternatively, if you and your mates are on a budget, you ‘Shazam’ as a codeword. When your say ‘Shazam’ to your wing, he does the move and gets you the drinks, but you pay him later on. The girl is none the wiser.

Don’t knock it until you’ve tried it. It’s winning move that gets results.

Shazam!

 

I feel I’ve nearly perfected getting a girl into the sack on the first date.

Not a word of a lie, I’d say 90% of my domestic take-downs in the last year have all happened on the first date (and some 80% abroad). Here’s my formula…

1. Sound Logistics

Simply put – if you don’t have a private place where you can take her, you’re screwed. If you still live with your parents, share a room, or you’re homeless, take her out for drinks and hope to Thor she has her own place. But if you want to guarantee a first day bang, you need a place. Otherwise, this article isn’t for you. You have to have an end in mind – and this means a warm environment with knee padding. Ideally, you’ll want a room with a couch where you won’t be disturbed.

2. Getting her over to your place

As I mentioned in my article on text game, use choice illusion to get her to agree to coming over.

Extract:

Text 1: “Do you like marshmallows…”

Most people like marshmallows. 95% of the time she’ll say yes.

Text 2: ”What do you prefer, beer or wine…”

See what I’m doing? She’s getting caught in my web of trickery! Mwahaha.

Text 3 (the hook): “Hmm…well then, we should have a wine and marshmallows night. You bring the marshmallows, I’ll bring the wine. I’m free Tuesday.”

If she agrees, pick her up or meet her near your cave and go directly to back to yours. She already presumes a ‘wine and marshmallow night’ involves staying in.

If she smells a rat, she’ll usually text back something like, “Where? Maybe we could [insert boring shit here] instead,” or “I have to up early to [insert boring shit here] the next morning.”  In that case, she doesn’t trust you and needs to build comfort in a safe environment. In this case, play it safe and go for drinks.

3. Build the scene together

Taking a page straight from Mystery’s book, get the girl to build the seduction scene with you. Get her to light some candles while you fetch some glasses and turn on some music. This way she’s playing an active role in the romancing. She’s creating the mood to get YOU in the mood. On the other hand, if it’s just you setting the whole thing up, it’s a little creepy.

Checklist: Candles (preferably scented), soft lighting, mood music, wine, marshmallows, plenty of heat.

4. Blitzkrieg Comfort

You’ve got her over, created a nice setting, and now you need build comfort and make a connection. There are plenty I’m not thinking of, but here are some tips for doing just that.

i) Chemical Catalysts 

The best way to loosen her is to spike her drink – or better yet, knock her out with chloroform.

Only kidding.

I’m talking about alcohol, of course. I recommend playing drinking games like ‘I never’. It’s a fun way to get to know each other, builds up comfort, and playing with wine gets both of you nicely chilled pretty quick. Just don’t reveal too much and don’t be seen to be actively trying to get her drunk.

ii) Psych Games

There are a plethora of fun exercises to get to know your date a little better. Hand-writing analysis, visualisation games, cold reading, etc. are just some tools you can employ. Take a little time to learn some of this stuff. This material is too comprehensive to explain in the scope of this article so download some e-books.

The key here is to establish a deep connection with a person by finding out their fundamental truths, values and weaknesses. It’s not sinister, it’s merely getting to really know someone on a profound level. It just so happens this fosters powerful bonds that are conducive for mating purposes.

iii) Let her experience a whole spectrum of emotions

Emotions are addictive. The more emotions she experiences with you, the better.

If someone tells you about a problem they’re having, men think about how they can logically solve it, whereas women tend to mimic the feelings of that person in order to ‘understand’ how that person feels. This is useful to know.

When you’re telling a story that involves danger, she’ll get excited.

When you’re telling a story about your dead cat, she’ll get sad.

When you’re telling a story about having sex with you’re ex in a movie theatre with people around, she’ll get horny.

Push all her buttons and always display passion and sensuality. When you’ve done that, get sexual. Even if you’re talking about baking a cake, make it sound like the most erotic thing in the world.

5. Push-Pull Escalation

I’ve written a lot about this already – as many others have.

When you start making out, suddenly stop, and go back for your wine. Get her turned on, then back away. Take it slow. Think two steps forward and one step back. You want to tease the crap out of her, you want her confused, and you DO NOT want her to thinking that you are easy. Make it seem like you are hesitant, even. You dick must be earned.

If she shows ANY resistance along the way, cut off your attention completely. Get a glass of water. Condition her until she realises any resistance she puts up results in you withdrawing affection.

This is pretty basic stuff, but’s it’s important. Do this all the way to sex.

Advanced Move:  The Caveman Surprise

So you’ve gotten her to light candles, you’ve taken her on an emotional roller-coaster,  you’ve pushed-pulled and teased her all night, gotten her real turned on, and she is dying for you to escalate but you’re being stand off-ish. (See the paradigm shift?)

You know it’s on and the chicken is ready to come out of the oven.

If you’ve supplied her with enough booze, she eventually have to go the bathroom. When she leaves, hide.

When she comes back in, grab her, bend her over, rip down her pants and panties and ram it in. SHE WILL GO CRAZY – like legs-buckling, need-a-mop crazy.

I’ve done this a bunch a times. I wait in the kitchen and when they come out, I throw them over the counter and go caveman on their ass. It evokes a POWERFUL response. If you’re feeling up for it, give it a shot.

WARNING: Works 80% of the time, all the time.

While I usually gotten incredible reactions, I once did this on a Muslim chick and quite the opposite happened. She freaked out when I jocked her (she hadn’t shaved) and it totally killed the mood. I never saw her again.

Also, take note of what she wearing. If she got multiple layers and a belt, it might be difficult to strip her and you could end up looking like a complete tit.