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Manipulation and the mating game

There are good reasons why assholes get laid.

“Geez wiz guys, the whole game thing – I just think it’s wrong. You really shouldn’t be manipulating women like that.”

You might of heard something like this before. This is the beta/ the prude on his high horse / the feminazi.

Manipulation: exerting shrewd or devious influence especially for one’s own advantage.

Women spend their whole lives manipulating men.

  • They FAKE beauty with powders and paints.
  • They wear FAKE eyelashes, FAKE nails and even FAKE tan.
  • They FAKE height with heels.
  • They use knifes, plastics and silicon to get FAKE breasts, FAKE noses, FAKE lips.
  • They FAKE the colour of their hair.
  • They FAKE their body scent to lure us in.

But who can blame them? Women do this out of evolutionary necessity. They trick us only for the purposes of scoring status or premium genes for their offspring. For women, manipulation in tool for hypergamy.

So given the facts, you should be manipulating women as much as possible to get what you want.

Most guys, including  condescending anti-gamers, do it  anyway.

  • They buy nice cars / watches / clothes to show status
  • They bring girls on dates / pay for their drinks hoping they’ll be liked
  • They shave, use gel, aftershave and remove body hair
  • They conceal their intentions
  • They pretend to be interested when a woman harks on about x or y, as in y do to I give a shit…

I’m not saying it’s wrong. There are good reasons for some of these points. My point is if everyone’s manipulating everyone for their own end (including you), why not do it right!

You must follow the way of the Pirate.

Fuck your scruples. Morality ends with a soggy tissue and an empty bed.

Lie. Cheat. Game. Rape. Pillage other’s girlfriends, fiancés & wives. Exploit economical disparity and exotic capital. Provided you keep within the law, you should learn and do anything and everything to bed women.

As a man, that is your genetic imperative. 
Go forth and multiple. ARGHHH!!!

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13 Responses to Manipulation and the mating game

  1. Ben October 28, 2011 at 4:07 pm #

    It’s not lying it’s flirting : )

  2. Jax October 28, 2011 at 5:39 pm #

    Ha, funny timing of this post. Just read a quote from Neitze, for those that want one more argument for living like a pirate –

    ” Let us acknowledge unprejudiced how every higher civilization hitherto had originated! Men with a still natural nature, barbarians in every terrible sense of the word, men of prey, still in possession of unbroken strength of will and desire for power, threw themselves upon weaker, more moral, more peaceful races (perhaps trading or cattle-rearing communities), or upon old mellow civilizations in which the vital forces was flickering out in a brilliant fireworks of wit and depravity. At the commencement, the noble casts was always the barbarian caste: their superiority did not consist first of all in their physical, but in their psychical power – they were complete men (which at every point also implies the same as “more complete beasts”). ”

    Moral – Barbarians are full of win. Beta moralizers, well, not so much.

  3. RichardMelbourne October 29, 2011 at 12:21 am #

    Totally agree!!!
    Men are not allowed to be men anymore!!!
    Everything is too politically correct these days.
    Stand up and be a man! Tell it like it is – and if someone is offended, well fuck em.

  4. AlekNovy October 29, 2011 at 4:13 pm #

    Damn, gamers are the GRANDMASTERS of strawmen.

    Can you please point to me any non-gamers that have said “it’s wrong to manipulate women”.

    ONE? The subject isn’t even brought up.

    You NEVER read any criticism of game, and you always respond based on what you IMAGINE we must be saying.

    Not one of has said either of the following:

    “oh don’t manipulate women”
    “oh, sex is bad mmkay”
    “oh I don’t like wearing fuzzy hats”

    NOT ONE OF THOSE THINGS HAS EVER BEEN SAID ON AVFM as criticism of game. NOT ONE.

    But you keep slashing and ripping apart that strawman.

    They buy nice cars / watches / clothes to show status
    They bring girls on dates / pay for their drinks hoping they’ll be liked
    They shave, use gel, aftershave and remove body hair
    They conceal their intentions
    They pretend to be interested when a woman harks on about x or y, as in y do to I give a shit…

    Bullcrap.

    I’ve never done ONE of those things. Neither has Paul Elam, nor has fidelbogen, nor has ANY of the guys criticizing game.

    But then again if you ACTUALLY read any criticism of game, instead of slashing imaginary creatures – you might have to challenge your entire reality.

    • Naughty Nomad October 29, 2011 at 6:58 pm #

      @Aleknovy: You’ve never shaved? Dude…
      And I’d recommend some aftershave too..

      As for these so called strawmen, I have personal friends like this and they are very much real.

    • Abracas July 22, 2014 at 9:42 pm #

      You’ve never bought a car, or a watch, or shaved your face? I admit that Nomad is ridiculous for trying to say that just because people take care of themselves they are trying to manipulate women, but you’ve got to get your anger under control if you want your argument to make any sense.

  5. Fidelbogen October 30, 2011 at 4:17 am #

    “Moral – Barbarians are full of win. Beta moralizers, well, not so much.”

    Well, if some beta barbarian took you up on it some day, I know you’d be too sporting to moralize about such a lil’ old thang! 😉

  6. Sid October 31, 2011 at 8:11 am #

    When I was first learning Game, I had a number of female friends who chastised me for studying it. It’s not nice to manipulate women for sex; there’s more to life than sex; you shouldn’t have sex with a woman if you don’t plan on giving commitment.

    During that time, those girls had sex with their professors, made their boyfriends cut off all ties with their friends because they (the girls) were jealous, fell in love with their boyfriends even harder once their boyfriends cheated on them, obsessed nonstop about how their desired mates saw them, and had no compunction about keeping me in the friends zone while chattering nonstop about their vaginas.

    But Game is bad.

  7. A Laydee November 15, 2011 at 4:47 pm #

    Guys, there’s no need to be so cynical, it’s just sex! I don’t understand all this ‘Game’ patter. Like, it’s not difficult to get laid, it’s human instinct! Sex is fun, we girls enjoy it as much as you boys do. You don’t need to follow a bunch of shitty rules, just be confident in yourself and you’ll get plenty of pussy- whether you follow The Rules or not.

    Naughty Nomad, your blog shows you’re a witty and worldly guy, and Irish too? Phwoar! You’re better than this mysogynistic boring war of the sexes stuff. Just enjoy getting ball-deep and stop analysing it. ;D

    • Oli November 12, 2013 at 6:21 am #

      That’s the way it truly is. Enjoy yourself with the people you choose to have around you.
      Girls enjoy getting a good lay from guys they are attracted to just as much as we enjoy bitches that attract us.
      Women they wanna fuck just as much as we do, they are just different about going about it. The truth is they are naturally nastier then us depending on where they wanna sexually. We men run out on the nasty shit eventually women do not. So fuck your girl right the way she wants it and if she wants to explore explore with her.
      Another topic.
      For example women can fuck whenever they want and they can fuck all the men they want as menny times as they want, knowing that turns me on about them, only the dirty but classy ones. With that being said pussy runs everything. So start manipulating pussy.

  8. A fan of black women December 3, 2011 at 5:55 pm #

    “Lie. Cheat. Game.”
    I don’t have a problem with lying but I don’t like to hurt people. I think there is lie and lie. If you make a small lie to get what you want, and after all the girl is happy of what she gets, then it is all fine. But if you completely cheat a girl and after she feels decieved and abused then is it really worth it ? I like to end up with a win-win situation (you may call me a beta guy, I don’t care ;-). I’m just wondering, dear naughty nomad, how often do your girls realise they have been manipulated/cheated and how do they react …

  9. Ali S January 29, 2013 at 4:54 pm #

    It’s all good until some chick’s homeboy in a third-world country takes you up for the offer

  10. Abracas July 22, 2014 at 10:25 pm #

    You’re very misguided. You’re arguments are made of air. you’ve taken things that people do for a variety of reasons and tried to frame it that their sole purpose is manipulation, made statements about the things that some women do assuming that all women do them, and the same for men. There are plenty of men and women who do not act like primitives, who have the ability to improve on instinct with their mind rather than rationalize it. Women who have brain enough not to chase after a man who cheats on them with their friends girlfriends and men who have a good enough understanding of the importance of sex to achieve a superior list of priorities to you and not feel the need to fuck their friends girlfriends. or anyone’s girlfriend for that matter. or if they do feel the need, not to act on it.

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