How to Fulfil your Girlfriend’s Rape Fantasy

Continuing on from my Cavemen article, I’d like to revisit the concept of aggressive persistence in sexual escalation.  Referred to as “going cavemen” in the pick up community, or “rape game” by humorists,  this practice tends to incite controversy.

While by-passing a women’s token resistance has its place in a sexual interaction, it’s important to recognise genuine objections to your advances. Simple you would presume, but consider this…

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What if she’s screaming “No! No! Stop it!”, but at the same time grinding your delicates. Mixed signals maybe, but those who possess a greater understanding of such dynamics would regard her body over her words. Often her verbal misgivings are merely a by-product of a conflict between Mammalian instincts and rational objections from the neo-cortex.

While she may crave your dick and relish the experience of being pounded by you, she might also regret the sex afterwards if she thinks it was a poor decision logically.

What if she was married and her husband found out?

What if she just screwed her best friend’s boyfriend?

Here’s her get out cause: “He raped me.”

Believe or not, in the eyes of the law – she’s right.

Bingo!

A Definition of Rape: In criminal law, rape is an assault by a person involving sexual intercourse with another person without that person’s consent.

She’s told you to stop, she kept saying no, but you kept going. She may have even put up physical resistance (albeit to get herself off on the idea of being dominated). You certainly were persistent when you think about it, weren’t you?

How would all this sound in court?

Before you know it, you’ve just made the sexual offenders list.

OK, so the above scenario is a little extreme, but it raises some good questions: Where does token resistance end? Where does one draw the line?

I’m reminded of the Julian Assange Case @ inMalafide.

I once dated a young Yuroba girl from Lagos. We were sharing our ultimate bedroom fantasies. She surprised me when she revealed her most desired sexual experience:

“I know it sounds strange, but I always wanted to be raped.”

She told me she wanted a guy to pounce on her and no matter how hard she fought, kicking and screaming, she would ultimately have clothes ripped off her body, get slapped around and get fucked hard. She wanted him to call her a “Stupid Whore!” and a “Fucking N!*g€r!”. She wanted to feel helpless, used and worthless.

It blew me away. How could any women want to get raped? Then I asked myself a more puzzling question.. How do you rape a girl to fulfil a fantasy without actually raping her?

Bingo.

Welcome to Rape 101

Here’s your get out clause: The Codeword.

Every time I’m with a new lover and things are getting heated, I introduce a codeword. This codeword means stop, unconditionally. Any other string of words may be interpreted as meaningless utterances. Often when women say “Stop” or “No” is just means “Try something else” or “Not quite yet”. Only the codeword truely means stop. A semantic ruse perhaps, but an important one.

A codeword I often employ is “Bananas”. This way I give her permission to resist verbally as much as she wants, but at the back of her mind she knows she can terminate any action with the word “Bananas”.

But seriously, stop.

Not only does this create trust, it’s also fucking hilarious. Any discomfort she may feel is instantly diminished with such a stupid phrase. The codeword creates a playful dynamic to an otherwise primal act.

Other good codewords off the top of head: “Frappuccino!” “Hippopotamus!” or “Babyshit.”

Make sure it’s a funny word and totally not sexy, as she be less inclined to use it.  Such a word would completely destroy the mood, so if she uses it you know she means business.

As for my girl’s fantasy…. one day I burst into her room, grabbed her by the mane,  handcuffed her, beat her with my belt and assaulted her verbally while I made her to do whatever demeaning sexual act I saw fit.

Afterwards she told me it was the best sex she ever had…

So go ahead, try a little Rape game.

Just remember: Bananas! ;)

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16 Responses to How to Fulfil your Girlfriend’s Rape Fantasy

  1. David Smith January 15, 2011 at 9:37 am #

    Great post.
    The line between persistence and rape can be blurry indeed. If you would give up just because of some Last Minute Resistance, you wouldn’t have many day 1 lays.

    I like the codeword idea.

    Previously, I told girls to say “stop” if there’s anything they don’t like at all, but Bananas is way better.

    • Naughty Nomad January 15, 2011 at 5:00 pm #

      Thanks David, had a look at your blog. I like the ABC thing, I must try it.

  2. Bronan January 15, 2011 at 3:08 pm #

    Do you employ the safe word technique the first time you bang a girl? How do you work it into the conversation? Seems like it’d kill the mood, but it’s a damn smart idea.

    • Naughty Nomad January 15, 2011 at 4:54 pm #

      First time yeah. I just throw it in just before I escalate. BTW… if you want to me to stop just say Bananas… it’s gets a laugh and I don’t find it kills the mood if you mention it in early…

  3. Willy Wonka January 16, 2011 at 5:06 pm #

    Good post. My motto lately has been: No means try harder, but stop actually means stop.

    So when shed say “stop” I would actually stop.

  4. Noel G January 17, 2011 at 11:15 pm #

    Naughty Nomad

    You are a fucking maniac! Your stories are hilarious, and I find it refreshing reading than the normaloids from Lonely Planet forums (i.e the Bible).

    SE Asia is a fascinating place indeed and I plan to take in a touch more this year; it’s too cold in Glasgow for now. I am checking out Phnom Penh on your advice that ‘people go off the rails here’. With a hint of danger, it sounds like my kinda place.

    Been to Dublin a couple of times, new year at Christchuch and all that jazz; the thing is in Dublin the drinking STARTS at midnight on new year!

    All good info on your site, hope at some point to be able to follow your footsteps to getting the fuck out of this city.

    • Naughty Nomad January 18, 2011 at 12:48 pm #

      Good to hear Noel, Phnom Penh is unforgettable. Glad you like the blog :)

  5. Nazir Malik March 6, 2011 at 8:52 am #

    Hey Nomad,

    A hot young female friend of mine recently confessed to me that she likes it rough during sex and that when she sees a rape scene on TV, it turns her on. She says it’s because of her last boyfriend who beat her up, raped her, spat on her, emotionally abused her and called her a whore. I don’t give a shit about all that – any advice on how I could bonk her brains out based on this special knowledge that I know of her?

  6. Angelsin May 11, 2011 at 10:36 am #

    Great post! I experimented with it for like 3 time but it’s something I wouldn’t teach in my trainings ;-)) Love the codeword trick, I’ll implement it in my next adventure.

  7. Don November 9, 2011 at 12:11 pm #

    Ohhhh….there is lot to learn from you….keep posting man…..You’ve got game…

  8. Henrik November 14, 2011 at 9:53 pm #

    I knew a girl too who with beaming eyes confessed she wanted to be raped in a lone forest; later she died of cancer in young years.

    That code word meaning “no; seriously” – i used that too, esp in younger years when i was so much younger than today and could read a gal even less than today.

  9. A Laydee November 15, 2011 at 4:50 pm #

    ” one day I burst into her room, grabbed her by the mane, handcuffed her, beat her with my belt and assaulted her verbally while I made her to do whatever demeaning sexual act I saw fit.”

    Bloody hell, sounds like a typical night in with my other half ;) Love the idea of a code-word, I’m sure it would help a lot of people (male and female) during difficult or awkward sexual situations :)

  10. Gil March 6, 2013 at 3:26 am #

    With my Russian wife, we came up to the word “petrushka” (parsley)

  11. NanaXXX September 4, 2013 at 5:33 pm #

    I want to be roughly fucked by a man in lagos tho. Tied and fucked hard..by he and his friend..My fantasy. One of them.

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