American Women’s PORN Addiction

As any well-traveled man knows, the average American woman is a poor mate choice.

Commentators attribute this to cultural factors: third-wave feminism, an inflated sense of self-entitlement, hypergamy, etc.

However, today I’d like to discuss the unhealthy habit that these women have developed over the last decade: Porn Addiction.

Last year, when I first moved from rural Ireland to the Big Bad Apple, I found it interesting how many women habitually watched porn in America. It should have come as no shock—after all, this was the home of Sex in the City and some of the most sex-minded women on the planet. At first, I enjoyed it. Women could orgasm at the drop of a hat; they were down for threesomes, ass-licking, bondage — and whatever other sexual depravity I had in mind. NYC was my sexual smorgasbord.

However, pretty soon I started to notice some rather disturbing behaviors these women exhibited.

Before I go on, let me first give you my story.

If you can believe it, I gave up porn two years ago— and haven’t watched a single video since.

Some of you may remember my first post detailing why I gave it up, but for those who don’t about how porn negatively impacts your life, here’s a recap of some of the dangers men experience:

  • Decreased libido
  • Decreased productivity
  • Depression
  • Porn-induced Erectile Dysfunction
  • Less satisfaction with relationships and sex in general
  • A preference for porn over real-life sex
  • Inability to be aroused by touch alone

The list goes on.

I’ve already talked about the benefits I experienced after going one year with porn as a man, but one thing I haven’t discussed is female porn use and reliance on other artificial sexual stimuli. This is my own observation, but I’m sure many men can relate.

Effects of Female Use of Porn & Sex Toys

Emotional Detachment

Female porn users have experience greater difficulty with intimacy than those who don’t use it. Sex is more detached and unemotional. In some cases, men become just another toy to get her off. You can’t oscillate 100 times a second, but at least you can choke her – so you’re of use. You will be replaced as soon as a shiner toy comes along. It’s sad to say, but I’ve met many women in NYC like this. I was even seeing one girl who even kept a black board above her bed and asked men she banged to leave their signature. Creepy.

Reliance on Toys and Sexual Aids

“When I have sex, the only way I can orgasm is when I’m stoned and use my vibrator at the same time,” one ex-lover warned me. One time when we were having sex, the batteries ran out. The girl nearly started crying.  How sad is that? I know many guys who can’t masturbate without porn, but now it’s something similar is happening to women. They are mainlining sexual heroin. Another girl I dated had a $300 vibrator with 10 speed settings, 10 strength settings, and an equal amount of different rhythm modes to combo them with.  How can any male penis compete with that? Similarly, how can women compete with disproportionate surgically enhanced pixelated pornstars that morph into a new slut every 30 seconds – only this time shes joined another whore who has a unnatural talent for deepthroating. We are  becoming nothing but fleshy accessories to masturbation.

Artificial sexual stimulation is  numbing us to the actual sexual experience.

Pornification

It’s not all bad. Porn has produced a generation of girls who will do any filthy thing you can think off. Girls are now actors expected to perform during sex. This is great for male pleasure, however, is it really a positive thing for modern long term relationships? It feels good when she’s giving you a rim-job in handcuffs, but is this a good candidate for the mother of your child? Porn normalizes sexual extremes. By the time she’s of marrying age, the average female American porn user has probably been gangbanged, got fucked in the ass at least a dozen times, given several bathroom blowjobs, had well over 50 sexual partners, and swallowed gallons of cum. These girls are good for a casual romp, but that’s as far as it should go. Call me old fashioned, but most men feel the same way. You can’t turn a whore into a housewive.

These are my opinions and observations on female porn addiction.

Now I want to know what you think!

Am I forgetting anytime?

Share your experiences!

Are you a woman who has had porn negatively effect your life?

Are you a man who has had their partner’s porn use impact you relationship?

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24 Responses to American Women’s PORN Addiction

  1. Michael July 12, 2014 at 10:56 am #

    Interestingly when I was in Colombia the girls I slept with loved having their asses smacked, loved getting bent over and fucked rough and deep, but the freaky shit like hard choking, slapping in their faces, toys and anal that so many Aussie chicks get off on, none of them are too popular there, reason, porn addiction most likely.

    Although there was one black chick who kept trying to hit me in the balls or slap me while she cooked for me, when I held a knife to her throat, told her I was going to fuck her with a 10 inch cucumber and then carried her into the bedroom, she was dripping wet when I pulled down her pants, flooded, and she came about three times in a few minutes, but from reading your site I think that’s just a thing with negritas worldwide hahaha. They’re freaks and don’t waste time.

  2. Ali S July 12, 2014 at 11:47 pm #

    It’s kind of a paradox – porn promotes violence against women and these modern women get off on it, but they think even the faintest notion of hitting women is wrong? Where does one draw the line?

    Since you’ve been with plenty of modern pornified women, what’s the farthest you think a guy can go (in terms of physical abuse) without thinking that you’ve crossed a line? I don’t mean spanking or choking or other ‘rough sex’ (which is a rather vague term). I mean stuff like slapping across the face, punching, beatdowns that leave bruises. How far can one go?

    This is common in hardcore porn and becoming increasingly mainstream – there’s one particular rather popular porn series that I know which is notorious for coupling this kind of ‘action’ with psychopathic verbal mind games. I’m not sure how many women watch it, but if that’s what’s now acceptable in bedrooms, the ‘normal’ American woman might be a pathological masochist.

  3. spiralina July 13, 2014 at 3:43 pm #

    As a happily married woman, I can say there is NO sexual thrill greater than intimacy with a man who truly loves, trusts and protects you. Everything you do together in bed becomes lighter, more joyful and less inhibited.

    I work with high school and college-aged girls and I see a generation of girls who are aggressively propagandized to believe porn and casual sex are empowering, but are given zero guidance on how to love, care for, or bond with another human being. Just the other day I was talking with a beautiful 19-year-old girl who lamented that while it was easy to find frat guys to hook up with, it was impossible to “find a guy who will even take me out for Chipotle every now and then.” This is a girl who would’ve had no shortage suitors on the marriage market 50 years ago, and now her beauty and sexuality can’t get her a $5 taco. How empowering, right?

    That’s why by the time you meet them, Western women need progressively more extreme measures to experience basic sexual pleasure. All the warm, vulnerable parts of their sexuality that are meant to be shared with a primary partner have been devalued and burnt out by years of empty, soulless, “empowering” years competing in the sexual marketplace.

  4. Loop July 13, 2014 at 4:55 pm #

    Interesting threat and topic.

    Two things:
    1) Totally agree with stopping watching porns improves life quality. Also stopped time ago and feel deeply and absolutely better in several aspects – even got much better in picking up.
    2) “farthest you think a guy can go” – totally interesting discussion. I think to that porn changed mainstream sexual behaviors, but how far can you get as man?

  5. JT July 13, 2014 at 10:47 pm #

    Porn is gross. It dehumanizes everyone.

    What’s the logic where women are gross but dudes aren’t sleeping with x amount of people? All those extra notches- they come from nasty women so it just makes everyone gross really. How many notches makes a guy gross-70? A woman 25? It’s all gross and fragments relationships for building family and society’s long term well being in general.

  6. lonny July 14, 2014 at 11:36 am #

    I think its the sign of a painful religious upbringing when people start telling other people what they should and shouldn’t do in regards to sexual habits. nothing wrong with a bit of legal porn every so often and if the average American male was a bit more exciting and interesting, maybe the women wouldn’t need to watch it.

  7. Matt July 14, 2014 at 9:30 pm #

    You should have written this on Returnofkings but great article nonetheless. American women are freaking disgusting and should merely be used as a cum bucket. If they recognize it or not, their value is plummeting in the dating market.

  8. Jacrispy Marcos July 15, 2014 at 1:19 am #

    Zolo,
    How does the States compare to where you’re from and Europe for game?

    Do you like America or do you see it as a trash hole with second rate women like Roosh V always says-lol?

    • Naughty Nomad July 15, 2014 at 6:54 am #

      I love the States dude… or at least NYC. This city is great for girls !

  9. Byronicmate July 15, 2014 at 6:13 pm #

    “I was even seeing one girl who even kept a black board above her bed and asked men she banged to leave their signature. Creepy.”

    That would really freak me out. Has a weird serial killer vibe to it.

  10. QED July 16, 2014 at 7:13 pm #

    Until you meet a woman u truly can treat as your equal i don’t think u will learn to put away the parochial 50s style sexism you think is the truth. I was once like you, but i saw the light, men cant expect any more or any less of a woman than of themselves. But ur stuff certainly is often hilarious, just a pity about the anti woman stuff.

    • Naughty Nomad July 22, 2014 at 9:13 pm #

      How is this anti-women? It’s anti-porn.

      • QED July 26, 2014 at 1:30 am #

        Because if a girl fucks plenty of people like u or I do, it’s a mistake to think the less of them. Why are they sluts and we are studs? It’s total bonehead nonsense for me I’m afraid…. Don’t u have to like them to really enjoy shagging them? I think your stuff is great, don’t get me wrong, just calling girls sluts is a bit negative dude.

        • Mindless Meatseaker September 1, 2014 at 8:49 pm #

          I completely agree with you on this point QED. I salute Mark Zolo and his contributions to the manosphere. The West (especially America) need more rogues like him who scoff at society norms and expectations. But some of the stuff he wrote under “Pornification” made me cringe a little. I think more guys should be listening a lot more to Johnny Soporno and James Marshall and a lot less to serial misogynists like Roosh.

          He is 100% right about internet porn though.

  11. JJ July 17, 2014 at 10:37 pm #

    When I was living in Wroclaw, Poland I hooked up with a local student. Can’t have been much more than 20 years old.

    We hooked up literally the day after we met. After we had sex she told me that the thought of meeting up with me made her so horny that she came straight away when masturbating earlier that day. She said it usually takes her 20 mins and she needs to watch a porn clip.

    She then showed me very “favourite” scene on my laptop. It featured a woman being basically raped and humiliated in front of a room of people at a party.

    Funny thing is she was one of those “looks like butter wouldn’t melt” kind of girls.

    • Ali S July 19, 2014 at 4:15 pm #

      Did you fuck her in the ass?

  12. Zolo Fan July 19, 2014 at 10:44 pm #

    Will you do a show on how to make money location independent?

    Porn is so lame- what’s better than grabbing a girl smelling and smashing her till she’s almost out of breath. The Romans used to come back from battle not bathed and destroy their girls boxs. People don’t need porn to get aroused they need to spend a week out like an animal camping and lifting heavy things. Anyone would be ready to give some furious poundings after that- a week outside will turn you into an animal. You can even smell things farther away.

  13. David July 20, 2014 at 2:05 pm #

    I completely agree with everything you wrote Zolo. And from what I have heard and seen even though I have not been to America, it definitely sounds like whore island to a foreigner.. which is great! There are always exceptions though, I dated a jewish/american girl for a year and she was nothing like that. I think girls that are very connected to their culture have a better chance of being a ‘good girl’ and not affected by the porn industry shaping the new generation of women into mattress actresses.

  14. Deb July 20, 2014 at 6:51 pm #

    I really don’t know what the point is in berating Western Women, then again I am lucky enough to live in Eastern Europe.

    I think Western Women can be wonderful in many ways, they can pay for their own coffees, similar sense of humour, they can be classy, intelligent etc.

    Many American guys will come to Ukraine, and a tiny percentage of them will form a long lasting relationship with a Ukrainian woman, why?, because Ukrainian women suck, they are only good for fucking, and for older guys you will have to pay for that pleasure

  15. Tremaine July 22, 2014 at 3:44 am #

    Dude.

    You’re a fan of a “free love” world, in which a girl gives it up after a date or two. Ideally, a one-night stand, same night. Cruising for notches on your belt.

    Now you’re complaining that the chicks you’re meeting are sexually experienced, kinky and/or sexually dysfunctional.

    Gimme a break.

    • Lonny July 25, 2014 at 1:28 pm #

      I wonder if its grand hypocrisy that a guy who has a book, site and forum dedicated to being a naughty nomad should begrudge a woman some porn? I wonder if its a legacy of some sort of religious upbringing that a man can talk about “flags” but dedicate an article to female sexual emancipation? very curious and one dimensional thinking on his part.

  16. Anonymous July 25, 2014 at 4:53 pm #

    The manosphere (and its tertiary stites) are the new radical liberal left. They hate America and want to see it burn. Every girl I have ever been with in the states was extremely feminine and did not watch porn. It must be the manosphereists that are the bad ones in the equation. Once I expatriated I actually saw more of this behavior than I had seen in America. The bastards are everywhere and they are taking over the planet. The leftist brainwashing must have gotten to the manosphereists in school. Its why they are all trying to subvert the constitution at the individual level. Hey who cares though “Look at that pair of tits.” Bunch of Machiavellian boys the whole lot of you.

  17. Skins August 2, 2014 at 3:33 pm #

    It’s crazy I had two different young innocent Thai chicks tongue my back door recently and I think to myself… Where did they learn this? I didn’t ask for it but I always appreciate when a chick goes the extra mile. It’s either porn or their other boyfriends teaching them. Every American chick I dated had a fuckin gun rack of dildos, lube, handcuffs and anal beads waiting to be deployed. Scary shit…

  18. The Turk August 7, 2014 at 2:28 pm #

    If we are talking about “addiction”, I believe there is no harm to generalize every sort of addiction is unhealthy whether it is smoking, drug or even internet. So, if one is addicted to watch porn, there is always a side effect that is not good for that person.

    But, the comments here don’t refer directly to “addiction” IMO. Although, collecting the signatures of the guys who fucked that slut is something “not normal”, I do not feel comfortable of the idea which women watching porn, have toys and other “nasty” things make them necessarily sluts.

    We, men, expect an exciting sex lives during our marriages or even long-term serious relationships. It is always acceptable for men to be experienced at sex, but when it comes to women, there is still a huge double standard against women even in 21st century and developed world. And yet, we can easily complain about the boredom of our bedrooms after a couple of months or years (if lucky) just because our wives are not into our nasty demands.

    Do we really know how many dicks did our partners/wives sucked before they met us? or how far did they go? How should we rate our partners (and future wives) if they would be perfect mothers of our future children? Or is it the virginity we are looking for?

    I’m 32 and married for the second time. First lasted for 5 years and it’s been more than 2 years with the new one. I’d say sex is in my top 3 list of a successful marriage, if not at top. I cannot make any comments specifically for American or European women but I’m sure we all want our wives or partners do most, if not all, of the things we have seen and enjoyed in a porn movie including but not limited to anal sex, cum in mouth, bondage, handcuffs etc.

    As I said earlier, if it is an addiction, it should be cured anyway. However, the perception we, as men who have access to internet and been living in 21st century, should not directly refer to “woman watching porn/have dildos etc = slut”. I’m %100 sure we all would love to have sex with out partners while watching porn.

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