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NN Definition:

A ‘Mast Mission’ is to a timed challenge, issued to a traveler, to capture a flag (i.e. have sex with a person from that country). This refers to the native of the country the traveler is visiting. The length of time and the country being visited will determine the difficulty of the mast mission. If you succeed, you raise the flag to the mast, hence the name Mast Mission.

Calculating your Mast Mission Rating

Use this only as a crude measure. They two factors we will consider is difficulty of country and timing. There are other variables we will ignore, such as language barriers and exotic capital, as well as racial and national stereotypes in the country you’re visiting.

Determining country difficulty

What are the sexual attitudes of the country your visiting? Withstanding the language barrier, this is best judged by SOI: Sociosexual Orientation Inventory (see Schmitt’s paper).

See SOI rating at bottom of page for a 48 nation sample of SOI ratings for women only. If your country is not on the list, estimate it using a similar one. A higher mean indicates more liberal sexual attitudes…

Let's simplify....

Less than 12 : Let’s consider this a Conservative country. On this list only Bangladesh falls in this bracket, but you may include nearly all Arab countries and places like Bhutan and N. Korea.

12 – 17: Let’s consider this a Moderate country. Taiwan, Korea, China etc.

17 +: Let’s consider this a Liberal country.

Sex ratios vs SOI

Mast Mission Ratings

Rookie Mission:

• Cat 1: Liberal country with one month. Example: You’re in London for a month.
• Cat: 2 Moderate country with one year. Example: Teaching English for a year in Korea.

Flagger Mission:

• Cat: 1 Liberal country with one week. Example: You’re in Estonia for a week.
• Cat: 2 Moderate country with one month. Example: Visiting China for a month.

00 Mission:

• Cat 1: Moderate country with one week. Example: You’re in Armenia for a week.
• Cat 2: Conservative country with one year. Example: You’re working for a year in Oman.

When I step off the plane, sometimes it’s feels like I’m the captain of the soccer team, stepping up to take a penalty. My friends, fellow players, and followers are all watching.  People are depending on me to score.

My next Flagger mission is in Cyprus…

SOI Ratings

Via Schmitt. Take with a pinch of salt..

Country      Mean    S.D
Argentina   30.10   19.35
Australia   30.73   20.81
Austria     38.66   23.93
Bangladesh  11.80    8.16
Belgium     26.80   16.24
Bolivia     21.92   18.94
Botswana    23.06   24.21
Brazil      27.13   17.32
Canada      27.30   18.18
Congo       25.74   29.55
Croatia     32.15   16.29
Czech Rep.  29.49   15.78
Estonia     31.83   23.53
Ethiopia    18.89   14.59
Fiji        25.26   18.55
Finland     41.60   27.75
France      30.66   21.21
Germany     34.44   20.81
Greece      24.32   13.28
Hong Kong   19.21   11.86
Israel      31.71   21.56
Italy       21.39   14.58
Japan       20.72   13.52
Latvia      41.68   26.68
Lebanon     17.21   15.78
Lithuania   35.25   16.40
Malta       25.17   16.56
Mexico      25.99   11.08
Morocco     20.06   21.32
Netherlands 31.56   14.90
New Zealand 38.79   26.93
Peru        21.23   12.03
Philippines 17.95   10.53  (yeah right!)
Poland      26.90   20.75
Portugal    21.32   10.76
Romania     19.48   16.80
Serbia      31.89   21.28
Slovakia    28.52   13.54
Slovenia    36.45   17.99
South Korea 16.22   10.98
Spain       25.17   14.47
Switzerland 34.26   18.20
Taiwan      14.24    7.62
Turkey      21.71   14.58
Ukraine     17.36    8.65
U.K         29.60   21.91
U.S.A       29.24   20.56
Zimbabwe    13.98   12.11

There are good reasons why assholes get laid.

“Geez wiz guys, the whole game thing – I just think it’s wrong. You really shouldn’t be manipulating women like that.”

You might of heard something like this before. This is the beta/ the prude on his high horse / the feminazi.

Manipulation: exerting shrewd or devious influence especially for one’s own advantage.

Women spend their whole lives manipulating men.

• They FAKE beauty with powders and paints.
• They wear FAKE eyelashes, FAKE nails and even FAKE tan.
• They FAKE height with heels.
• They use knifes, plastics and silicon to get FAKE breasts, FAKE noses, FAKE lips.
• They FAKE the colour of their hair.
• They FAKE their body scent to lure us in.

But who can blame them? Women do this out of evolutionary necessity. They trick us only for the purposes of scoring status or premium genes for their offspring. For women, manipulation in tool for hypergamy.

So given the facts, you should be manipulating women as much as possible to get what you want.

Most guys, including  condescending anti-gamers, do it  anyway.

• They buy nice cars / watches / clothes to show status
• They bring girls on dates / pay for their drinks hoping they’ll be liked
• They shave, use gel, aftershave and remove body hair
• They conceal their intentions
• They pretend to be interested when a woman harks on about x or y, as in y do to I give a shit…

This shit is so good I might Password protect it from next week. You guys owe me!

My friend Cormac and I were drinking at the local pub last Saturday night.

In walk a gaggle of girls: nine of them, all looking sexy and dolled up for a night out. They were just popping in for a few cheeky drinks before they hit the club.

“Some of them are really cute, we should make a move,” I said.

“Send them over a few shots of water!” Cormac joked.

The man was a genius. I don’t think he knew how brilliant an idea is was.

"Wow, I'm so special!"

“Fuck it, let’s do it!” I exclaimed.

I went up to the bar and arranged nine shots of water on a tray (in the shape a smiley face for good measure). The bar staff refused to deliver it. Apparently it was ‘disrespectful’ – whatever. I asked my bro’s girlfriend from Romania to do the deed. She refused, but when I told her it was only water she actually changed her mind. She wanted in on the joke.

I gave her the tray.

“Tell them it’s from us,” I said.

She went over and delivered the girls the shots, pointing out us: their magnanimous admirers.

All the girls looking over at us, offering big grins and flirty waves. We raised our glasses and smiled back. “What nice fools!” they must have been thinking, feeling like little princesses.  They each picked up a shot, and arranged to do it all at once. Then all nine got in a circle and chanted down from 5.

“5…4…3….2….1… CHEERS!!!”

They down the shots of  water.

Well I tell you, I nearly pissed myself .  It couldn’t have gone better. The mixed looks of confusion and horror were too much. The girls turned around to find us in tears of laughter. We made them look like complete idiots, firmly putting them in their place.We had turned from the creepy nice guys to comedic assholes. In one second, we gained all the value.

Result: Attraction. They wanted our cocks. WE got approached. One of the sexiest of the lot came and starting chatting us up.

I’m going to using this gambit from now on. It’s just too good!

I’m simply calling it the Water Shots Gambit. 

Next time you see a group of gorgeous girls sitting around a table, getting attention from every cock in the building, I don’t want you to put their pussies on a pedestal. Put em in their place.

I can’t wait to try this out in a really classy place with models!

Try it out yourselves and see what happens. It’ll make you laugh, and with any skill, it’ll get you lucky…

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NN Definition: 

“Exotic Capital” refers to the social worthiness granted to an individual’s race or nationality, as a result of how these factors impact their attractiveness in the sexual marketplace. Furthermore, exotic capital ignores racial & national stereotypes (which are often more important with regards sexual capital), and only considers “exoticness” itself. Exoticness is location dependant.

If we take the economic principle of supply of demand, in theory, those with a high degree of exoticness should be high in demand. This would support the theory of gene diversification. However, if we factor in cultural  indoctrination, racial and national stereotypes, the equilibrium can shift, often dramatically, in either direction.

I often get asked about what I mean by exotic capital,  so a formal definition was warranted. With that taken care off, let’s see how you can reap the benefits of exotic capital to increase your chances of mating.

Here’s some forum links for may be interested in…

Best Cities/ Countries for Black guys

The Asian guy Travel Thread

World Travel Guide for Indian Dudes

Best Cities/ Countries for Latin Guys

Best South American Cities for White Guys

I was nearly as bad..

Everybody has their origins. Few men start out as Casanovas; even veterans with rock solid game still make mistakes. I am the voice of experience. I tried everything out there. I practices game religiously, got versed on the latest techniques, went out, tried it, failed and began the cycle again. I never had a mentor, the most I had was a computer screen. For me, it was a long sluggish journey to get where I am now. Today I want to help you avoid the same mistakes I made…

Mistake 1: Peacocking with dirty feathers

I used to go out dressed like a twat, and hoped somehow it would get me laid. At one stage, I used to have dreadlocks and handlebar moustaste, then go out with zebra skinned platform shoes with fish in the heel, a ruffled shirt, and a massive purple pimp hat with a matching zebra band and a large feather it in. Did I get attention from women? Yes – TONS, but it wasn’t always the right type of attention. Did I get laid? Hardly ever.

Peacocking works, but you need to look cool – not retarded.

Mistake 2: Over-negging

I use to neg all the time: dishing out subtle insults/backhanded compliments for the purposes of lowering a girl’s self esteem, hoping she will seek validation from me. It worked sometimes, but the majority of time I came across as a complete dick. While teasing has it’s place, it’s not always a winner. Sometime I just hurt people’s feelings. I over-negged. I tried an experiment and stopped negging altogether. The result – my success with women skyrocketed.

Mistake 3: Boasting

In pick up, they call this a DHV (demonstration of higher value). It’s a great way to subtly let a girl know you’re a high value guy, but taken too far it looks needy and pathetic. My biggest flaw was boasting (it probably still is). I can’t help it. When I tell someone them about my life, it just comes across like I’m a pretentious, conceited prick. The problem is I’m too awesome. Even when I’m being modest, I’m still too awesome. Guys consider me competition, girls think I probably jack off to my reflection. I’ve had to learn to shut the fuck up about myself.

Mistake 4:  Over Analysis

This is a problem for a lot of guys. I not longer pine over irrational reactions, flakage or interpreting texts. I no longer focus my attention on any particular woman. I’ve stopped thinking about what I’ve done wrong. When you get into the game you’re mind is in over-drive: how is my body posture, what angle should I point my feet, what should I say after this, time contrast, neg, kino, DHV. Ahh! Maybe I need to read more. A quote I heard once: “There’s no such thing as an armchair Lothario.” Women can tell if you’re treating the interaction like a chess game. Unfortunately it takes time to internalize things, then you can stop thinking and learn to relax. In golf, you can theorize about your swing all you want, but unless you hit the driving range you won’t get any better.

Mistake 5: Failing Logistics

If you fail to plan, you plan to fail. How are you going to bang a girl on the first date if you have nowhere to do the deed? It’s common sense. In the early days, I never thought things through. There were so many lost opportunities. You have to have a  plan for end game. You have to plan, where you going to take her, what your your going to do, and how you’re going to steer her into your den.

Maybe you live at home… Use a fucking shed – A heater, a soft surface and a few candles is all you need (used to do this plenty). Hell use the local church if you have too. Once there’s privacy, a horny chick will bang just about anywhere.

Maybe you’re travelling and staying in a dorm room…  How the fuck do you expect a chick to get frisky in front of a load of backpackers? Real players use private rooms on date nights.

So there’s my mistakes, hope this helps. Please share yours…

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A needle in a hay stack

I consider myself an expert at finding my way around the planet for peanuts.

In fact, I’m one of the best there is. I’ve never met anyone who can sniff out cheap flights like I can. I regularly find cheaper ways to get about than ANY flight aggregator website. Kayak, Skyscanner, Expedia, Farecast, Ebookers – I’ve defeated them all.

To give you examples: 

• Last year I flew from Malaysia to London for €98 (normally around €300)
• This year I flew return to the Caribbean from Ireland for €320 (€600 on search engines).
• I also flew to Gambia for just €89!
• Return Flights to Lebanon are €450 – found a way to do for less than €200.
• I just landed a flights to Cape Verde for just £90.

What’s my secret?

It’s depends. Let’s say you want the cheapest flight possible for your getaway. You will be in one of three camps:

a) Totally Flexible with time and location

b) Restricted to certain dates and but flexible with location

c) Restricted to certain dates and want to go to a specific location

Here are your strategies…

a) Totally flexible with time and location

The easiest way to find cheap flights. This is definitely my favorite way to travel; you never know where you may end up. Our trip to West Africa was decided by this method…

1. Log on to skyscanner, type in your location, for your destination type ‘Everywhere’. Search flight for ‘whole year’.
2. Bingo – you will see the cheapest flights to everywhere in the world and when they are. You may know about this already, but let’s see if  we can do better.
3. HACK – Change your location to the nearest travel hubs and compare. Do this with a few hubs. For example – I’m in Ireland, home of Ryanair. While Dublin the best hub for flights around Europe, it’s no so good for further afield. So I change location to the UK. Viola – even cheaper flights. Often it only costs around €20 to flight over for the connection anyway. This has saved me hundreds and lands me in far more interesting destinations. For more hubs see bottom of this article.

I imagine this is the case for many of my readers. Work and college commitments mean time is often restricted. But if you’re flexible with location – that’s great! You have plenty of options. Just bare in mind what’s digestible.  Example – if you only have a week, don’t try and visit three countries. Maybe a small island nation is better.

1. Use the same method as a), expect restrict dates. Viola – the cheapest flight for your dates right? Let’s do better…
2. Hack: Don’t restrict dates just yet. Perhaps single it down to just one month. Why? Skyscanner algorithms can’t really search flights ‘to everywhere’ for specific dates, they will only show you results from previous ‘destination specific’ searches by previous customers. For example: if no one has searched for a flight to lets say –  Addis Ababa on the 1st of Jan, you won’t see it in your results for ‘everywhere’. Even though the flight could potentially be dirt cheap. Searching  a month or year gives you a better indication of what’s out there. Take note of the cheap routes and what airlines run them.
3. Now, conduct a search with restricted dates and be destination specific this time.  Certain airlines won’t fly on this day, so you need to directly to the airline that run the route and run parallel searches. Furthermore, often official airline site give you a +3/-3 day comparison which is advantageous.
4. Double Hack: You could be missing some airlines. Check out sites like Attitude Travel to see if there’s even cheaper flight competing.

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Over the week I had the pleasure of going to see Richard Bandler at the seminar in Dublin. Some of you may know Richard from the book The Game, but let me refresh your memory. Richard is co-inventor of NLP (neuro lingistic programming) and a world reknown author and intellectual. For those of you into pick up, the most notable student of Brandler NLP was Ross Jeffries. Others students have included Neil Strauss & David DeAngelo.

A friend of mine, an NLP master pracitioner and MD of Headcase, offered me a spare ticket (thanks Cormac!). He also introduced me to one of Bandlers co-authors: Owen Fitzpatrick, as well as female dating coach Singalista.  We all got on, so we gathered to indulge in the ancient Irish tradition of a few pints.

Owen was the presenter and mastermind behind RTÉ’s TV show ‘Not Enough Hours’, and also a fellow swagabond having visiting 68 countries (including North Korea). He was keen to hear of my exploits. When I regaled him of some of tales he got so engaged he handed me a free copy of his book and signed it for me. I was chuffed. Owen you’re probably reading this so I’d like to say thanks again!

I also had a very interesting chat with Singalista, who recently went on 40 dates in 40 days for lent – purely research of course. She gave me the low down on Irish PUA bootcamps and told us a great story about a date with German PUA that even trumps my worst date ever. It ended up with him running down the road after her shouting “You’re the one! You’re the one!”. Funny stuff.

But I digress. What’s the common denomatior here? NLP.

Now I’m going to help you guys out with a basic application. This is a little technique my friend Cormac taught me. This is great for when you need to get in flow before you start approaching woman.

The Technique…

1. Imagine you’re about to approach a beautiful women – a 9/10. Are you nervous? If not, good for you, you don’t need to be here. If yes, you have approach anxiety like the rest of us. I want you to figure out where that anxiety is coming from. Maybe it’s your chest, your stomach, your left nut – whatever. For the purposes of this exercise, I want you to manifest that anxiety as a spinning ball of energy inside you. What colour is it? What way is it spinning? Visualize it.

2. Now take that ball of energy out of your body and hold it in your hand. Stop it spinning. Change the colour to a calm, cool blue.

3. Now bounce it, and imagine taking a few basketball shots. You swish through the basket everytime and the ball bounces right back to you. Feel good don’t it? Keep doing it.

4. When your ready, get the ball spinning in the opposite direction to what it did originally.  Stick the energy back inside you. Spin it faster and faster. Let that cool blue energy transcend your whole being. You’re solid, you’re mellow.

5. Approach.

Maybe you have your own techniques to help with approach anxiety? Please share…

Love comes in many forms. It can last a lifetime, or just a couple of seconds. It can be with one woman for 50 years, or with several women replaced at regular intervals. Today I’m dealing with the latter.

For those of you who aren’t versed in the triangular theory of love, I would like to direct you to the following diagram.

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Now, let’s apply this to game. If you want to read more about each of seven types of love you can read this. For the purposes of briefness this argument ignores chemical basis for love, and looks more at behaviorism.

Brass tax…

What do men like us primarily want – Sex (Passion). Therefore we’re dealing with infatuatous, fatuous, romantic and consummate love.

But what if you meet a nice chick you want to keep in your harem?

You need to know what most women want – Everything (Consummate love).

Most modern women will not settle for polygamy, promiscuity, or non-commitment in the long term.

So here’s the question: How do you make a beautiful woman fall in love with you, fuck you senseless, remain loyal to you and be content with a non-exclusive relationship.

Wouldn’t that be sweet? Ideal?

Here’s the game plan…

Think like Pavlov. Act like Zorro. 

One may be a psychologist, the other a masked hero, but together they create the ultimate Lothario.

On Pavlov

Get her to associate love with sex. You also need to fast-track love.  You have to be Pavlov.

Passion

Fuck her first. Don’t try and get close to her, don’t try win her over or promise to give her the moon. Fuck her first, and fuck her really good. This is crucial.

Intimacy

Use this as her reward for sex. After she spreads her legs, open your heart. You need to train her like a bitch, just like Pavlov’s theory: through cause and effect create positive association. Sex = closeness. Good dog.

Commitment

This is the tricky bit. Similar to intimacy, your commitment should only be hinted at after sex (several sexual encounters in fact). Some women just wanna fuck, but remember they are still genetically programmed to choose males who will provide for their offspring (ie- stick around). The trick is hit at long term commitment using the ‘us’ frame*. Talk about doing thing together in the future and use words like we. It will push the right buttons.

On Zorro

Love may blossom, but only in darkness.

If you want a woman to feel consummate love, but want to avoid monogamy, the secret is mystery. You have to be Zorro.

You have to be a man of mystery. Don’t tell what you do for a living. Don’t tell her where you’re going. Don’t talk about other women. Everything is a secret. Tell you have to go away for a month to Lebanon for ‘business’. Don’t see her for long periods of time. Simple economics = lower supply, increase demand. Tell her you lead a double life, one that she can never know about. Everything about you is a mystery.

Extreme? Yes. But it’s works. Women love that shit. As far as she’s concerned you’re either a mob boss or work for the C.I.A. She’ll fantasize about you – become addicted, obsessed even.  Fantasy is a powerful tool. The reality is much more sinister.  Technically you do have a double life: banging the other women who fall for the fantasy.

Alternatively, you can be completely honest about everything. Be Mr. Free Love. But Zorro lasts longer.

The Result

The elusive harem.

As any international playboy will tell you – it’s easy to maintain a global harem. You don’t have to a globetrotting mystery man, but that not to say you can’t offer that illusion.

Love to her your questions or comments guys….

Do you have your own harem?